My Approach to Creating A Romantic Atmosphere in My Tantra Massage Sessions

 

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Among the most gratifying aspects of my Tantra career was meeting fascinating gentlemen and crafting captivating moments that lingered in their memories. I took great care in setting the mood and offering suggestions to my clients on how they could create similar special experiences for their loved ones. Now I am going to share some of my secrets with you!

The first thing that I would do is set the romantic tone with some Norah Jones Music.   I can't quite pinpoint why I'm so drawn to her music, but that alluring, sensual voice of hers truly captivates me, and I suspected it would have the same effect on others. Turns out, I received many compliments on the music.

Then, I would slip into something eye-catching but also comfortable. Every woman wants to feel sexy but not every outfit makes a woman feel desired. To provide that extra confidence, I suggest wearing lingerie a few sizes bigger than one’s normal size. In this photo, I only wore these Red High Heels and that proved to be all that was needed.

Perfect Bath Gift Sets-

Throughout the years, clients would often buy me Bath and Body Gift Baskets for special occasions such as my birthday or Christmas. What I love about this one is the well-made basket that I got to keep afterward.

One year, I was gifted this Bath Bomb Gift Set. I've never used them before but, let me tell you, total game changer! I really liked how they not only changed the bathwater color but also smelled amazing and I generally felt better after my bath.

 I must mention this Spa Luxetique Gift Basket, because of the keepsake purse and the high quality of its products. Together this one is by far my favorite! 

Lite Me Up-

Candles have a remarkable ability to set the mood, transforming ordinary spaces into intimate and enchanting havens. The soft, flickering glow creates an ambiance that is both calming and alluring. The gentle play of light and shadows adds a touch of mystery and warmth, fostering an atmosphere conducive to relaxation, connection, and romance.

 I would enhance the mood with several varieties of candles. Mainly I would use Mini Tealight Candles. I like them because they would last for the duration of the massage, around two hours and they are inexpensive. I would use about 30 of them per massage and spread them out around the room.

Aromatherapy candles, enriched with delicate scents, have the power to evoke specific atmospheres—be it the calming notes of lavender for tranquility or the alluring essence of vanilla for intimacy. I selected these particular aromatherapy candles for their one-of-a-kind fragrances, charming appearance, and the bonus feature of a prolonged burn time of up to 20 hours.

These battery-operated flameless candles prove to be incredibly convenient for those who prefer to avoid the hassle of dealing with traditional, real candles.

Being Comfortable-

Authentic Tantra Massage takes place on the ground, guided by spiritual considerations. The choice stems from a deep connection to the earth, emphasizing closeness to the ground for a more profound spiritual experience. Additionally, ensuring the ground bed is not only visually appealing but also exceptionally soft and comfortable adds to the overall experience. Here is what I used:

I would lay down a 4 in king size floor mat. This one is good and easy to store when not in use.

Then, I would cover it with a heated blanket & turn it on low heat. I prefer this one because it's thin and easy to clean. Maintaining a comfortable room temperature during the massage is essential, to avoid overheating.

The choice of soft sheets is crucial, and I appreciate these for being cozy, breathable, and cooling.

Gliding Oil & Keeping It Warm-

This is undeniably one of the most commonly asked questions: which oil is ideal for gliding across the body, and how do I maintain it at the perfect temperature?

I've opted for all-natural unscented Coconut Oil. It possesses no fragrance, and the oil is lightweight, avoiding any sticky residue.

I've utilized a couple of oil heaters, both effective for warming up both hard and soft oils and maintaining the warmth throughout the session. These include an Electric Oil Heater

and, Candle Heater.

More to come..

At Tempress Academy, these carefully chosen elements come together to create an immersive and unforgettable Tantra experience. It's a journey of sensuality, connection, and self-discovery that transcends the ordinary, inviting participants to explore the depths of intimacy and pleasure. Welcome to a realm where each detail is thoughtfully curated to elevate the art of Tantra.